Beware .. Bad choice


Beware .. Bad choice

"Man looks at the eyes, The Lord He looks to the heart" (1 Samuel 16: 7)
+ There have been many over the past few years, and also in our day now, the problems with difficult social work sometimes, because of lateral when choosing a life partner - for both sexes - because many people looked at the external form, any appearance without substance, was their marital misery, and misery of standing, reflected in problems on children, relatives, and probably continued until death.

+ Is still the same thing repeated - unfortunately - when choosing a partner, on the basis of the form (beauty), money, position, income, employment, car, condo, lineage and descent, without regard to the depth of the spiritual (the seriousness of the spiritual life), and the wisdom and virtue, and fear God, which is already the basis of family happiness, but tolerated by the majority of those who want to marry.

+ Many of the parents, spiritual guides advised some young people of both sexes, not having to complete a speech or a refusal of marriage in certain personality, and their return, is "The spiritual dimension," but, unfortunately, conflict with advice, and then after the wedding and the occurrence of problems, complaining about luck and fate and destiny, and we say to these people: God has no income at all, as they wanted full freedom.

+ The book says explicitly: "Man looks at the eyes, but the Lord He looks to the heart" (1 Samuel 19: 7), will take this divine wisdom?! .

+ When you choose a partner for life, put in the first place "   The spiritual dimension ", ie the extent of his relationship with God, and how it relates to the church and the media of grace, education focuses on the spiritual Sulaimp lead to behaviors wise, who understood the nature of life, human nature, and learn from the experiences of the scholars, religion, parents, counselors, parents, and sources and documents and psychiatric conditions and medical practices.

And Ahdhirkhaddaa sight (physical beauty), Oooqgual people (relatives or friends), with corrupt purposes, owners of malicious rumors, and beware of using the means    "Encryption"   Any decorations foreign industrial, Kalcypr ovary from abroad, and stink from the inside, as was pointed out Jesus Christ (Matthew 23).

Take the lesson from Solomon, who passed that test, and ended up with the case, of failure, because it was behind the appearances, and all the pleasures, without interest (see Ecclesiastes Asahahat 1.2, 12).

Better try (my brothers / and sisters) for spiritual beauty, which is in humility and compassion, sacrifice and obedience, belief, loyalty, sincerity, honesty and compassion and wisdom, you will find grace, and bliss on earth and in heaven, do you do?! Or have held the wicked, the corruption of choice?!.